life in all its glory


on March 16, 2016

It’s been approximately one month since I’ve signed up with Eharmony and nothing has come of it. Yeah, a few messages here and there but…NOTHING. I’m even attempting to initiate conversation. That hasn’t been successful either. I’m really trying to stay positive but I’m having more and more difficulty.

There was a millisecond where I got really excited about a guy on OkCupid. Seemed like our conversation was going really well. We event tentatively set a date for next week. THEN….he wanted to exchange instagram accounts. I’ve written a post about social media before. I’m not a fan of sharing these things early on when talking to somebody. My social media pages, especially IG show my personality and what my life is all about. Anyways, what felt like immediately the conversation slowed and I haven’t really heard from him all day. What does that mean? Does that mean he didn’t like what he saw?  I’m so tired of all this. Could he eventually message me and say “oh crap. i’ve had such a long day. sorry i didn’t reach out.” yeah. Maybe. but let’s be real…it’s probably not going to happen.


7 responses to “frustration

  1. Personally I’ve never seen much use in the paid sites.

  2. CUCH says:

    I signed up for a free trial on the paid sites. The only difference was that I would have been paying to talk to / be ignored by the exact same people on the free sites.

  3. Zoey says:

    Tell me about it! Online dating was the hardest thing to go through. Some people can be very challenging. Also! Thought I’d mention, when I first started talking to my wife on a dating site and asked for her facebook name, she explained that she wanted to get to know me a bit better before becoming facebook friends. So, I get where you’re coming from.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

Debatably Dateable

Dating, Poetry, and More

The Dating Diaries


Mind's Seat

Set your mind on the things above

Single Chicks Blog

About a Decade of Dating Advice Headed Your Way

Book Hub, Inc.

The Total Book Experience

Spread Positive Vibes. Give Love. Be Happy.

On the Train to Hogwarts

I Finally Got my Letter


Conversations with the Heartmind

The Bitch Desk

Like the Help Desk only bitchier

Ellie More Or Less

Just another blog about weight loss


live, learn, laugh. repeat.

Introspective Adventurer

Aging on my terms - Random musings about life

The Great Sexcapade

Men, sex, relationships, and online dating

My Clutter Box

A Peek Inside One Girl's Head


Just another middle-aged guy raising a family ... except I gave birth to mine

Another Single Woman's Blog

Tales and thoughts of Dating with the challenge of kids and work.

Virtues of Altruism

"It's better to die on your feet, than live your life on your knees."

unConfirmed Bachelorette

Proudly living alone with cats

Top 10 of Anything and Everything

Animals, Travel, Casinos, Sports, Gift Ideas, Mental Health and So Much More!

Black Book Confessions

Dating, sex and the single life


Real. Life. Experienced.

Can I Get Ur Number?

Answering the question "Why Am I Single?" one post at a time...

Not Guilty By Reason Of Menopause

I'm Still Hot, It Just Comes in Flashes!

Goodwill Hoarding

We're not hoarding, we're collecting!

Dating Is Hard

Stumbling Through The Adventures And Misadventures Of Dating With God's Grace

Dating with Kate

The ups and downs of the dating world

Successful Online Dating

A fine site


A fine site

Everybody Wants Some

Working out my Van Halen on a (semi) daily basis.

redhead421's Blog

Midwest single girl discusses dating, food, working out, and more food.


Two friends. Three months. Twelves dates. Ready, go.

Free My Thoughts

A 23 Year Girl Trying To Get Through Life's 'Challenges'...


reflections on a passing life

Time for my own damn dating site!

The Dating Diaries

because single life can be an interesting time


my stories, my opinions, my advice, my life.

The (Formerly) Unfortunate Virgin

Trying new things and being a better me while dating in my 30s

Miss Connection

Life, plans, and the occasional meeting of the two

The Dating Games

May the odds be ever in your favor.


7+ years of my life in very graphic detail. Dating | sex | mental health | life blog. Frequently #NSFW 18+

Lessons From the End of a Marriage

Rather than trying to "get over it," perhaps we can learn from it

The Mind of B: The Chronicles

An entertaining collection of thoughts from a single, female stance.

My Unfortunate Life.

The real things that I think of and experience.


It's like a Cat video made of Bacon!

%d bloggers like this: