What is it with guys that use pet names right off the bat? Sweetie, babe, hun, love, baby etc. Mr. Jokester was like that. Also, another guy on OkCupid was like that too. I mean, literally every sentence he was saying something. Is that weird? Or am I weird for being annoyed?? We haven’t even met!!
That guy (let’s call him Mr. Insults). We had only exchanged a few messages and he kept pushing us meeting. Wanted to go to the movies (which let’s talk about the fact that going to the movies on the first time meeting, is already kinda weird) or then wanted to get coffee. Just made me feel uncomfortable why he kept pushing it. Mind you, he had complimented me a few times throughout the messages. But I just didn’t feel good about it. I told him “I don’t like this pressure to meet up. Sorry, I’m not interested.”
His response? : “You have a wig”
UH. WHAT? hahahaha….is that code for something? am I supposed to be offended?
What an interesting character. Wonders of online dating, y’all!
Ok, that is weird. I think I was with my current gf for 6 months before calling her “sweetie” and “darling”. We took something like 2 years to create “proper” and unique pet names for each other.