thirty-somethings

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eager beaver

on January 1, 2013

I’ve been exchanging messages with this young fellow I’ve nicknamed eager beaver since December 23rd. We’ve been texting for about 4-5 days now. He’s very attentive, he compliments me (which unfortunately doesn’t happen very often in general…so it’s really nice!), he has a good job, lives with roommates, all in all…he’s a pretty cool guy. We were supposed to go out on Sunday but I wasn’t feel well.

We decided we were going to go out today but now he isn’t feeling well.  I don’t really know what’s going to happen.

I’m afraid the physical attraction just isn’t going to be there so I really want to meet him already and get it over with. I’m afraid he likes me a lot more than I like him. He’s constantly telling me how excited he is to meet me and how awesome I am. Don’t get me wrong, I like hearing these things…but geez! He needs to calm down.

I’m nervous about meeting him. It needs to happen ASAP.

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8 responses to “eager beaver

  1. I agree, it needs to happen ASAP. Waiting too long definitely ruins it- you end up as just internet penpals.

    Don’t be too nervous though! I’m sure it’ll work out!!

  2. Be like Nike and Do It..but maybe just meet for coffee so you don’t have to stay long if it’s a no go..I mean your time is precious 🙂 Also, you have a blogger award on my blog..keep up the good stuff!

    • dsantos85 says:

      “be like nike and do it,” i couldn’t have said it better myself! I’m really hoping we meet soon. And thanks again for the award, I’m very grateful!

  3. Debby says:

    I totally agree – meeting asap is the best way to go. Don’t be nervous about it though – worse case scenario is that you’re not attracted, but then at least you haven’t been wasting your time!

    Good luck!!

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