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Happy mediums 

on August 22, 2017

One of my friends decided to connect me with her friend. She and I went out one night and she snap chatted some pics/videos and he asked her about me. Now we’re texting, getting to know each other. Let’s call him Mr. Jokester. He’s nice but seems kind of oblivious. I don’t wanna get too into it just yet. I’m curious to see where it’ll go. I’m just happy one of my friends is finally trying to hook me up with somebody! First time EVER! So, anyways. He has yet to really compliment me. I don’t really know if he’s attracted to me. I realize these are my own insecurities. But I need reassurance. Is it too much to ask? I sent him a picture and he responded by sending a video of his BBQ. Lol. 

Then today, I get a message from a random dude on OkCupid. And practically every other message he’s saying something nice about my appearance! Tells me I have a nice smile, and eyes. How I look really sweet. And how I’m beautiful. I mean…that’s overkill. Right??? 

I realize I probably sound like a crazy person but….Why can’t there be somebody that’s a happy medium between the two guys?? 

One response to “Happy mediums 

  1. CUCH says:

    It may not be about you, but about them. The first guy may just be a slow mover or is too concerned with not rushing too fast. He may fancy you like crazy, but he won’t say it until he is comfortable with saying it or at the very least until you’ve met in person so he can gauge what you’re really like.

    I’d be suspicious of the second guy, personally. You’re right – that’s too much, too soon. You are an attractive woman from the pics I’ve seen, but there is no need for overkill. You haven’t met yet. Perhaps he’s a flatterer, perhaps he liks to put women on a pedestal. Either way, he needs to cool it.

    Keeping my fingers crossed for you 🙂

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